While the thought of a French kiss lesson may sound silly to you, you must know that the French kiss is a beautiful and complicated thing, and there is always something that you can learn. You may not know it, but you could be doing everything wrong and you may already have some sort of reputation for being the slimy one or coming from saliva city. If you do not want to be the guy that all the girls laugh at behind his back, then take a look at these French kissing tips:
Pay attention to your mouth
So you have a date, and you think its going well and you’re hoping to get a kiss at the end of the date, and maybe even get an opportunity to French kiss the girl. Now, think about the state of your mouth. Are your lips dry? Is your breath bad? Are there pieces of food stuck in between your teeth that she may taste once your mouth is one hers? Make sure to have some breath mints with you or a handy breathe spray. Also, it would do you well to have some clear and odorless lip balm as well. You don’t want the girl to feel like shes rubbing her lips on a piece of sandpaper when she kisses you!
Pay attention to your tongue
The main difference of a French kiss from a normal kiss is that French kissing techniques require that you use your tongue. A lot of people think that this means that however they decide to stick their tongues into the mouths of their kissing partner is fine, but they are dead wrong. You need to be gentle, and you need to make sure that the timing is right. Try tenderly licking the lips of your partner first, and if they open their mouth further, you can insert your tongue into their mouth.
Pay attention to your partner
When it comes to learning how French kiss, paying attention to your partner is an important French kissing lesson that you always have to remember. Body language says a lot of about whether or not your partner is ready to be that intimate with you. Just take things slow and remember to read your partners body language as you go along. If you kiss them and they seem to be clamping their mouth shut, they probably do not want it the same way you do. Remember to always respect their boundaries and do not force the issue if they are not yet ready. When the time is right, your French kiss together is going to be the most amazing one yet. If you want to learn even more, check out the in-depth article mini series below:
- How to French Kiss the Right Way Part 1
- How to French Kiss the Right Way Part 2
- How to French Kiss the Right Way Part 3